"The greatest thing you'll ever learn..."

"... is just to love and be loved in return." -Eden Ahbez

In cliche phrases we hear that love is hard. And the more I ponder, I come to realize this popularly published truth is overlooked and perhaps even undermined. I have a theory, and it is that love is proven difficult because of the sacrificial nature it requires. In caring for others and demonstrating a sense of respect, you must give up an opportunity to gloat or gratify selfish desires. It is easy to act out of self indulgence-- to strive for the attention of others. Love holds no place for pride, and its foundation is not centered on the priority of oneself. When you act out of love, it is for the benefit of another; there should be no underlying intention of self-gratification. If you find yourself functioning under ulterior motive, consider the driving force behind your action and prompt alteration. Just love, and trust that others will reciprocate. When they do, accept it as the blessing it is and treasure it. For if we love and are yet unable to receive it in return, we are bound to develop hinderances of insecurity and fear. Allow your self to be loved, and strive always to be love's personification.