Friendships are not about obligations...

They are are about decisions and sacrifice.

More importantly, they require love.

In times of stress, it is so easy to shift into a mode of hypersensitivity. It is understandable, but I think what is important is that we remain understanding. Being slow to anger can be difficult in times where you may feel a sense of irrationality, but bear in mind the circumstances. Be mindful of the stress and anxiety that may serve as an emotional trigger, and judge not the victim of such emotions. Decide to forgive and let live. Sacrifice pride by not embodying a defensive stance. Love those whom you may be in conflict with, or may be struggling to reciprocate that love. Admit your wrongdoings, despite whether or not your intentions were focused on harm or upset. Strive always to be supportive, and be a friends that bears no conditions in giving that support. When encountering each of your friends, consider this: If today was their last, would you be happy with where your relationship stood? What conflicts would be left unsettled? What feelings would be left unexpressed? Would they know how much you loved them?

Let us not be foolish and take our friendships for granted. We are due nothing and entitled nothing. Acknowledge these relationships as blessings and care for them as such. Though effort and work are required, the reward is beyond worth the upkeep. Do right by your friends. Reflect the love and compassion of Christ that lies within you; it is meant to be shared and freely given. Goodnight loves :)